06 Oct 2025
Martyrdom Isn’t a Financial Strategy

At Succession Financial Planning, we’ve often heard our clients share stories of feeling guilty for spending money that they thought they should have been investing. Sometimes it feels like they’re trying to impress us by ‘never spending’.

But this is not the goal of financial planning. Or budgeting.

You don’t win a prize for never spending. Yet many of us move through life feeling guilty for any enjoyment that costs money.

It’s the voice that says, “You should be saving,” when all you want is to order in dinner and rent a movie for a night off. But here’s the thing: what are you saving for, if not for a life that feels good now, too?

We’re big believers in financial discipline, but not at the cost of your wellbeing. At SFP, we help clients find the healthy tension between restraint and reward. Not to splurge recklessly, but to spend wisely in ways that nurture your goals and nourish your soul.

A great place to start? Book a call with your financial planner and define what’s necessary, and what’s nice. Both deserve space in your budget.

You can plan responsibly and still live beautifully. Let your values guide your numbers, not your fear.